Start Seeing What Actually Matters In Life – There Are More To Life Than Materialistic Accomplishments

Helloooo. It's been a while since I write. It's not like a lot has happened. Hahaha. So, in my adventure in finding new friends, I've finally downloaded Bumble BFF and met some new girlfriends. I find it interesting and also I think making new friends is like finding a partner. You won't vibe with every …

Gaslighted By Those Motivation Quotes

I believe we all know that success stories of famous and impactful people is to make people feel inspired and motivated to do great things, or at least to improve their lives. To have this sense of confidence that you are not what you're born with, that you actually are in control of your life …

I Think Perfectionism Is The Root Cause Of My Misery

When asked with , "What is your weakness", during an interview, we tend to try finding something not so good but also not too bad about ourselves. Many advice on Google articles tell us to choose any traits that looks bad but in a good way. One that sticks with me is "Perfectionist". I had …

I’ve Always Wanted To Be Special And Change The World, Now I Just Want To Be Relatable And Be Content With My Struggle

For as long as I can remember, since I was a kid I always wished that I was special in a way. It was after I watched Sailor Moon, then I thought that it would be nice to have power like her. So I – like any other kid – played with my imagination and …

I’m Dropping The Idea That There’s Only One Life Path To Figure Out

What if the 'life path' that we've been trying to search does not exist. What if there's not just one life path. Maybe your life consists of many paths on different season. I sort of starting to see that we're constantly moving forward, life is moving forward to tomorrow, and for each tomorrow there's different …

Giving Myself A Pep Talk

When I come to think of it, I’m a real person writing about my real feeling on this blog. Some people might look like they have it all figured out and they can write about guides on how to go through life. I’m more interested in writing about the struggle, the ugly feelings, the confusions. …

Sometimes You Wake Up Feeling Heavy, It’s Okay

I woke up feeling heavy, empty and numb. I had a dream about my dad, seeing him lay there in the casket. Not a very pleasant dream. I still remember that day, the day I dreaded most. I know I'm writing about this now and I'll hate reading it again later on in the future …